Sunday, February 6, 2011

How To Stay in Love




kiss
cuddle
share
say please
say thank-you
validate
appreciate
giggle
say sorry
forgive & forget
accept
make time
make conversation
make love
nurture
prioritize
fight fair
learn from mistakes
be venerable
be kind
be interested
be interesting
say i love you
compromise
"see" him
"see" yourself
hold hands
celebrate
give up the notion of "my job" or "his job" - you're in this together
explore
play
dream
set goals
remember
be friends
be a soft place to land
take time for yourself
dance together
embrace quirks - yours and his
try hard
laugh together
laugh at his jokes
brag about him
turn off the tv
be intimate - mind, body and soul
let go
be careful; egos are fragile
focus
invest in each other
ride it out
be deliberate
create rituals
honour
respect
have faith
spoil him
be aware
slow down
get lost on adventures
talk to each other; the "big" talks and the "nothing" talks
plan together
sympathize
grow



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Saturday, February 5, 2011

Friday, February 4, 2011

the joy of LOVE - day 03

day 03: then and now



Then and now: my first attempt at portrait photography was this picture of The Little Man in the Pepsi Crate.  I wonder how many portraits I have taken since.  We have both grown so much.  I am so proud of you Little Man.

P.S - it seems that I am on a black and white kick.  it's not intentional. i have a couple of reasons for it
1.   my pictures have been taken at night, without flash. to compensate,  have upped my iso's, which have added grain to the image. this grain or noise doesn't look so out of place in a black and white image.  

2.  more importantly, to help focus on the person rather than than the clothes, or background in the portrait. 

the joy of LOVE - day 02

day 02: how they look


the joy of LOVE - day 01

A new photography project!  The joy of LOVE is a month long challenge to celebrate the love in your life.  I am super excited to turn my lens and my focus back onto my family - the people I love most.  

day 01: what they do




What they do is play video games together.  Every night after dinner, the three boys head down to the cave to race, battle and compete. 

Wednesday, February 2, 2011

How do I leave comments on a blog?

Some people mentioned to me that they were having a hard time commenting on my blog.  I hope that this information clears things up a bit.  It gets lonely here in blog land, so I'd love the feedback. 


How do I leave comments on a blog?

Tuesday, February 1, 2011

The End of my 365 Project - January 24 -31

The end.  I have completed my 365.   I woke up this morning not having to pick up my camera and take a picture.  I have to say it feels a little lonely.  This project of mine has given me so much.  I am a better photographer, a better wife, mother and friend.  I have grown in ways that I didn't believe were possible from the single act of picking up my camera and documenting my life. 


January 24 - Obscurity - The prompt for today was obscurity, and boy was it tough.  How do you go about looking for something obscure to photograph?  I tossed around with a few ideas and decided that I was going to look for shadows to photograph.  I liked the way that the shadow of my mum plant played on the sparkling, blueish snow. 



January 25 - The Magic Machine - Can you remember a time when the top of the line computer was the Commodore 64?  Nowadays, computers are as much as a household fixture as the telephone.  We rely on them to keep us in touch with out family and friends.  Today's prompt asked us to capture an image of our magic machines.



January 26 - A Beautiful Mess - More often than not, most photographers overt their lenses from the mess of everyday life.  Today in the Picture Winter class, Tracey asked us to see our messes in a new light - with gratitude.  I went to Josh's room.  When I paused and looked at it, I saw him.  A Thomas blanket, lego, baskets of stuffies, pokemon posters all tell a story of a sweet, innocent boy. A blessing in my life. 



January 27 - Give Yourself A Hand - Hands can show as much emotion as faces.  An angry fist, a gentle caress, the middle finger, the peace sign all display emotion.  I started thinking about hands, and mine in particular.  When I was a kid I sucked my fingers, and rubbed the satin binding of my blanket.  Truth be known, I probably would still be sucking my fingers if my jaw hadn't been wired shut for eight weeks when I was fourteen.  Anyways, the finger sucking stopped but the blanket rubbing did not. I can't explain it, but when I rub my blanket I feel the stress melt away.  I have worn through many blankets.  My yellow one, the blue one, the pink and white with flowers, the gold one, another gold one, another blue one.  Currently I have three blanket on the go.  The white one on my bed, the beige one in the family room and a traveller, a crib sized yellow one. 



January 28 - Details of Winter - For the Picture Winter prompt we were sent out looking for details of winter.  I don't mean to be pessimistic but, at the end of January I am just about sick and tired of looking for the details and beauty of winter.  I did manage to get this shot of a seed pod from my Rose of Sharon bush that I "stole" from a friend's garden.  There. Did it.  Now I'm going in to have a hot chocolate and sit by the fireplace and read a few chapters. 



January 29 - Your Name In Lights - I don't have a popular or trendy name.  I can remember having four items with my name on them.  Two key chains that my sister had custom made for me, pens and pencils that my mom ordered with my name from Regal, and the labels that were ironed in my undies when I went to camp.  When you see your name or someone calls you by name you feel special.   I don't hear my name often.  My husband calls me hon, my kids call me mom.  If you ask The Little Man what Mommy's real name is he will tell you Hon.  I went looking for something with my name on it today.  The first thing I photographed was my name on the first page of my baby book.  The second thing I photographed was this letter from my Grandma.  When I read it I can almost hear her voice.  My favorite part was when she wrote, "- like old times, I miss you gy guys."  I miss you too Grandma. 



January 30 - Glimmers of Hope - Boy I needed this prompt today.  I needed something to look forward to.  When I was out looking for glimmers of hope, the sun was shining and it felt so good.  I took two pictures.  One of the buds on the poplar trees out back.  Gosh, it surprises me that this tree just wont give up.  Half dead, and yet still producing buds.  The second is an image of melted ice.  Today the sun was warm enough to melt the ice.  Even though we are in the midst of a winter storm warning, I have hope.  The days are getting longer, the buds are beginning to show, and puddles are melting in the sun.  I edited both pictures by warming them up.




January 31 - One Little Word - What is your word for 2011?  What do you want to focus on in the year ahead.  Mine is thrive.  This past year I have matured.  Now, I want to thrive, grow, blossom.  I want to make steady progress, flourish and prosper.  I want to realize goals despite or because of circumstances.  In thriving, I know that I will find peace, joy, happiness, love, acceptance and so much more. 


the end.

Friday, January 28, 2011

Wednesday, January 26, 2011

Project 365 January 17 - 23


January 17 - Stark Raving Magnificent - Today's prompt asked us to explore simplicity.  The beauty that can be found in starkness and negative space.  The icicles that hang outside my bedroom window this morning were glowing pink from the sunrise.  Simple, pure and beautiful.  I set up my shot so that the negative space- the bare tree branches, would be out of focus, and your eye would be pulled towards the pink icicles. 



January 18 - The Center of Attention - Step Into the Light - How often do we as women put everything else before ourselves?  Where are you on your own list?  The prompt today asked us to photograph something that has been the center of our attention photographically speaking.  My weekly self portrait has been a constant in my 365 project.  So I did a selfie.  I am super proud to say that Tracey Clark, founder of Shutter Sisters, commented on this picture!  Yippee, gold star for me!



January 19 - A Different Kind of Story - Today's story should have been about the fun we had going to McDonald's and playing with cousin Jack for his birthday.  It was, but the story had a different ending than you would expect.  After we got home, The Little Man started to run a fever, and complained of a sore tummy.  I suspected strep, so off to the clinic we went.  Sure enough - strep throat.  Another round of antibiotics for the poor Little Man. 

January 20 - Frosty - Today's prompt was frosty.  This is a picture of me scraping the front windshield of my mini van.  Something I find myself doing more mornings than not. 



January 21 - Winter's Pull - Today I explored the idea of winter's pull.  In the winter you have to look a little harder to find the beauty.   What around me, on this snowy, cold, wind blown day was I drawn to?  What did I find beautiful.  The green barn on the way to Milton caught my eye.  I love the muted shades of blue and green.  I also love the way the roadside weeds and wire fence frame the picture. 


As well I went for a walk, down the street to my neighbours garden.  Her garden has interest all year long.  It's so inviting, I never pass by without wanting to explore it some more.  I love that she has so much colour even in the middle of winter. 


January 22 - Centerpiece - What's sitting on your kitchen table right now?  Is it full of clutter and junk or do you have a centerpiece that celebrates the importance of family meals.  Most days my table has a basket of napkins, a couple of empty plastic cups and a cat or two on top of it.  Today though, for the Kids birthday, the table has a chocolate cake, powdered donuts and pretty gerbra daisies. 


January 23 - High Strung - Today's Picture Winter prompt asked us to photograph something that was strung up around the house.  Garland, lights, whatever.  I stretched the prompt a little and submitted this picture of Charlie's hand and the guitar strings.  One of the strings had been tighten too far, and it snapped.  High Strung for sure.

To play fair, I also submitted this picture of the garland from Kenzie's party.  In real life the colours were bolder and more garish.  I toned down the colours, and warmed them up a bit.  Tracey commented that she thought the picture was pretty, soft like a water colour.  Yippee - another gold star!

fifteen - happy birthday Kid



Fifteen.  My daughter is fifteen.  A couple of things baffle me about her being fifteen.  First, I never expected it to go by so quickly.  Second, I am a little surprised that I can call her a friend.  Don't get me wrong.  I am her Mom first and foremost.  But when I consider the qualities that I look for in a friend, she has them all.  I am lucky to have her in my life.  She is a joy to watch grow up. 




The boys were going to Monster Jam at night, so for her birthday, her brothers wanted to take her out on daytime dates.  Her thirteen year old brother asked her out to Tim Hortons.  He told her in his sweet way that she could choose anything that she wanted.  Josh paid for their "date" with his Christmas money.  Not to be outdone, The Little Man offered to take his big sister to the "slushie" store (the convience store) to pick out whatever candy she wanted.  He paid for their date with Dad's money.  Which is better than how he originally was planning on paying for his "date" - with his sister's birthday money!

While the boys were at Monster Jam, The Kid had some friends over to help celebrate her birthday.  I stayed up in my room, but I did hear lots of giggling from the basement. 




balloons



The Dancing Kitteh shirt I ordered online for her.  She is big fan of Ray William Johnson or " =3 "

Blowing out her candles on her ice cream cake. 


Gerbra daisies for my girl.


Tuesday, January 18, 2011

Project 365 January 10 - 16



January 10 - Balance -  Today's Picture Winter prompt explored the idea of balance.  My personal opinion is that balance is a myth.  When I strive for balance, I feel off centered and wobbly.  Instead of balance, my goal is to prioritize my life.  I try to give my full attention to what is most important, and then move on.  What if I have two or more areas of my life that need priority?  I still need to choose what, at the moment do I need to focus on, what is more important,  because spreading myself too thin just burns me out. 





January 11 - Heartwarming - Hearts are a universal symbol of love.  Today's Picture Winter prompt asked us to shoot a photo that warms your heart.  Okay, time for another confession.  This picture was actually taken the day before....but just the day before.  The Kid found this strawberry in the basket.  Of course I had to capture it before she shared it with the Little Man. 


January 12 - Signs of Life - caution this next picture/story may cause some viewers to weep (Mom) viewer discretion is advised - Sometimes in the winter life feels dormant.  Even in the middle of winter, greater things are working in ways unseen.  Today's prompt had us looking for the magic of life.  Of hope.  Searching for signs of life.  This Christmas cactus was my grandmother's.  When she passed away, I asked if I could have it.  I wanted something that would continue to grow and thrive - just like my love for my grandma. 



January 13 - Controlled Chaos #1 - The challenge of any Mom's life is to control the chaos.  Most days after school, our house is the hang out.  This doesn't bother me.  Truth be known, I kind of like it.  However, what does drive me up the wall is the front hallway after six kids take off their winter wear, drop their backpacks and head downstairs to play video games.  My stress level melts away a little more with each pair of boots I line up.  All about (barely) controlled chaos.



Controlled Chaos #2 - Today's prompt had us looking for controlled chaos in our lives.  I have been working hard on studying for my GED, and today I worked on algebra.  I realized that algebra is all about  controlling chaos.  If you have a system - or formula, than even the most tricky problems have a solution. 



January 14 - Beyond the Chill - Winter Berries - The challenge today was to move beyond the frost and seek the beauty that exists just beyond it - for it is there.  I knew that I wanted to shoot the berries that grow on the chain link fence in the backyard. They keep their bold red colour, warning of their poisonous nature all winter long. I included fence post to give the picture some interest.  I added noise to further blur the background, and pull your eye to the bright red.




January 15 - Cooling It - Evoking a feeling from a picture isn't always easy.  The right colour, cast in a picture, can help to elicit the mood.  Warm golds bring out autumn's harvest, fresh greens speak of spring's new beginnings and cool blue-greens and purples make a picture feel frosty.  Today we explored how "cool" we could be - adding photo editing effects to cool down our images.  The first shot I took was out my car window.  I liked the way the snow had melted to water droplets on the window, but you could still see the snow outside.  I wasn't sure if this abstract image was the kind that Tracey was prompting us for - and so I was super excited when she commented on my photo. 


Below, was my second attempt at cooling down an image. It was taken at night, with the floodlights casting a warm glow on Ireland House.  A pretty picture, but it too lacked a "cool" winter mood.  I converted the image to black and white, and cooled down the colour temperature.  I was happy with the results, but was surprised that it was the first image that the forum preferred.  I suppose it goes to show you that you shouldn't  second guess yourself.



January 16 - Wrapped up -The challenge today was to consider ways you can evoke some kind of emotion in a picture incorporating a towel, or towels. Tracey encouraged us to share a feeling of being taken care of.  I remembered how I loved bathing my babies, and wrapping them up in a fluffy towel.  They were so small, sweet and fragile.  I wanted to symbolize this feeling.  What is more fragile than eggs?  I used three eggs, one to symbolize each of my kids.  An all white picture is tough.  Getting the different shades of white, without making the whole picture a dingy grey.  I am proud of the way it turned out. 

Wednesday, January 12, 2011

A Graduation Gift

I wanted to give myself a gift for completing my 365 project.  At first I was thinking that I would get a new lens or a point and shoot camera as my Nikon is big and bulky to carry around all the time.  Then I thought that I would turn my 365 into a book or a calendar.  In the end, I decided that I would treat myself to poster sized enlargements of some of my favorite prints.  I ordered the enlargements from mpix, and bought some frames from Ikea. 
I was thrilled when the prints arrived.  Mpix was fast, and the quality of the pictures is great.  The Ikea frames were a bit of a challenge, but I love the look of the frame and the tulips together. 
To see my vision, larger than life for the first time was amazing.  It filled my heart with pride.  I love my new art.  I am so proud of my accomplishment, in just a week, I will have completed my first 365.  Will I do another?  Wait and see....












99+ bottles of beer....

On our way to my sister-in-law's house for dinner on Sunday night, we saw this convoy of  massive beer vats.  The vats are en route, slowly inching their way  to the Molson brewery near Pearson airport.  Their average speed 1.5km/hr.  Part of the reason they are moving so slowly is because power lines and traffic lights have to be moved to allow passage of the convoy. 
I had heard about this on the news, and was hoping to catch sight of it, but I was still surprised at just how enormous the vats were.